Are you expecting the worst?

Are you expecting the worst

The other day I had a great session with my coach Relinde Moors .

We work together on a regular basis to keep my mind shit in check.⁣ This time we tackled a good ole belief of mine that “I need to be in control”. When she asked what losing control actually felt like I described it as a roller coaster ride that went too fast. ⁣

She then asked, “What’s the worst that could then happen?”⁣

My answer: “Literally crash and light’s out 💀”

You see, I grew up with the belief that control is safe, comfortable, and calm. ⁣

Actually being ok with “floating” or trusting that we are here to be ok, happy, and safe was not an idea that I had come across for a long time. Ok maybe in church when it was about trusting God but that never resonated with me.⁣

Not being in control = Expecting the worst

So in the end not being in complete control made me automatically expect the worst instead of trusting that the universe has my back (𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢 𝘤𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘩é 𝘐 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘶𝘭𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘴𝘰 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘦) and actually waiting for the good that would come out of it.⁣

This has fundamentally changed my life and business. Instead of taking action all the time I let things pan out. And it has always been a good outcome. Crazy right?⁣

What about you? ⁣

Can you let go of control and actually enjoy it? Trust in the universe or source or God or whatever it is for you?

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